Children’s Book You’ll Enjoy Reading Over and Over Again Too

best childrens books

If you already have a child, then you know well that whether you were once a reader or not before becoming a parent, that you certainly are now. We all know that reading to your child, even before they are born, is an incredible way to connect, educate and stimulate their rapidly growing minds.

Back when we found out we were having a child, one of the first things we did was buy books to read out loud so that our little guy could learn our voices right away. When he made his way into the world, we kept up with that. It’s paid off in so many ways already. Some of our fondest memories with Forrest so far are during story time. He’s been a book lover since forever and still is.

The thing with children and books is just like children and anything else; they get really attached to one thing or doing a certain thing. They like and need to hear things over and over. I am pretty sure that between my wife and I, we’ve read Little Owl Lost at least 1 million times. So, if you are going to be reading the same thing over and over, you mind as well get some enjoyment out of it too. There are ridiculous amount of books out there for little ones, so naturally, it’s hard to sift through all of them to find the good ones. The ones written well with interesting topics or amazing illustrations and that might even inspire us parents.

So, I’ve compiled a list of some of my favorite books that Forrest loves and that Jessica and I don’t mind reading over and over. Feel free to share any of your favorites in the comments for others to check out as well!best indie childrens books

1 We Found A Hat by Jon Klassen 2 Home by Carson Ellis 3 This Moose Belongs To Me by Oliver Jeffers 4 Alphabetics by Patrick Concepcion 5 I Want My Hat Back by Jon Klassen 6 The Great Paper Caper by Oliver Jeffers 7 All Aboard! National Parks: A Wildlife Primer by Haily & Kevin Meyers 8 Dear Bunny… by Blanca Gomez 9 Little Owl Lost by Chris Haughton 10 Wendell The Narwhal by Emily Dove 11 Lifetime: The Amazing Numbers in Animal Lives by Lola M. Schaefer 12 Little Blue Chair by Cary Fagan

Valentines Day Gift Guide

If I am being honest, it sort of feels like Christmas was just yesterday. It might feel that way because I wanted it to last forever this year, which may have resulted in it actually moving along a lot quicker. Having a child that is now able to get excited and unwrap his own gifts (sorta) and light up when he saw Christmas lights and so on really makes that time of year that much more special.

With that said, it’s hard to believe that Valentines Day is right around the corner. And if there is anyone who deserves to be spoiled a little bit this year, it’s my wife. Her constant mothering is never ending. Last year at this time, I thought those first few months of motherhood were a lot of work for her, but that seriously does not compare to what all she has endured and done in the last year. So, this year, I know I am going to do something really special for her aside from just a gift. I can’t say here of course, since she’ll read it, but I will share this Valentines Day gift guide that includes most of my ideas for her.

Row One: Waffle Robe from Coyuchi ($98) | Calm + Detox Bath Salts by Herbivore ($36) | Classic Ladies’ Analog Watch by Braun ($63)
Row Two: Bergamot & Mahogany Candle from Paddywax ($12) | Good Vibes Sweatshirt from Lou & Grey ($139) | Planner Notebook in Plaid by Julia Kostreva ($32)
Row Three: Small Leaf Earrings by April Soderstrom ($30) | Molly On The Range by Molly Yeh ($20) | Glass Blooms Perfume from Régime des Fleurs ($200)
Row Four: Plaidbrush Jacket from Lou + Grey ($249) | Contour Key Ring Bend by Areaware ($20) | White Ceramic Clock by Beautiful Things Online ($28)
Row Five: Mini Eco Tote by Abacá ($16) | Queen Linen Duvet Cover in Charcoal from In Bed ($242) | Charleston City Guide by WILDSAM Field Guides ($18)

This weekend I was able to get out of the house with Forrest, just the two of us, to do some shopping for momma. It was great. We loaded up in his Mountain Buggy Nano and hit some of my favorite shops around town. I love it when I get to spend some one on one time with Forrest out of the house. And one thing I love about living in the city is the easy access to loads of great shops that we can walk to. With the way things are going these days, I sometimes feel like my son and his generation might miss completely out on what it’s like to support local shops, which is why we try to shop at them as much as possible. And one thing that Raleigh has going for it, is it’s urban boom, including so many amazing shops popping up left and right. If you live in Raleigh or plan on being in the area sometime soon, you should make sure to check out:

Port Of Raleigh
Ramble Supply Co.
Lumina Clothing
Holder Goods
Devolve Moto
Raleigh Denim Workshop
Gather
Edge of Urge

 

HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE

If you’re anything like me, you are looking at the calendar and just now realizing there are only 16 shopping days left for Christmas. On top of that, you’ve got a huge workload to finish before the end of the year leaving you little to no time to actually go out and do your shopping. So, in the little bit of free time I have, I’ve been compiling these holiday gift guides full of great gifts for your lady, kids and even a list to give to your wife in case you are one of those “impossible” to shop for guys. Good news is that all of the products listed out below can be ordered online and I am 98% sure all of them will arrive before Christmas, if you get on it soon. Here’s to a Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

Holiday Gift Guide for Fathers

Row One: Fleece Lined Slippers by Woolrich ($40) | The Nordic Cookbook by Mangus Nilsson ($37) | Chef Shirt from Huckberry ($90)
Row Two: Passport Wallet by Fjallraven ($60) | MH30 On Ear Headphones from Master & Dynamic ($329) | Pour Over Stagg Kettle by Fellow ($79)
Row Three: Beanie by Norse Projects ($75) | The Carry On from Away ($225) | Pour-Over Coffee Dripper by Osaka ($36)
Row Four: Project I-1 Analog Instant Camera from Impossible ($300) | Tinford Jacket from Barbour ($179) | Daypack by Filson ($120)

Christmas Gift Guide for Mothers

Row One: Lori Colorblock Tote by Nisolo ($150) | Ellows Throw by Matteo ($165) | Creative Confidence by Tom Kelly ($18)
Row Two: Handbag Essentials from Grown Alchemist ($80) | Out & About Boots from Sorel ($110) | Stargazey Jumper by Finisterre ($127)
Row Three: 2017 Paradise Calendar by Rifle Paper Co. ($26) | Minuit Rose Gold Watch from Cluse ($99) | 3 Candle Gift Box by Norden ($85)
Row Four: Rivington Sweater-Coat from Madewell ($178) | Pouch from Delfonics ($22) | Model B Slippers from Glerups ($95)

Holiday Gift Guide for Kids

Row One: Work Bench from A Summer Afternoon ($49) | Plush Trousers from Zara ($16) | Little Owl Lost by Chris Haughton ($6)
Row Two: Basic Knit Hat from Zara ($13) | Silver Metal Speedster by Schylling ($100) | Wooden Camera by Fanny & Alexander ($52)
Row Three: Mini Band Wooden Percussion Set from Hape ($29) | Ear Flap Hat With Pompom from Zara ($13) | Wooden Baby Puzzle from Manzanita Kids ($36)
Row Four: This Moose Belongs To Me by Oliver Jeffers ($12) | Table & Chair by PlanToys ($135) | Long Sleeved Footed Romper by Milkbarn ($31)

Stocker Stuffer Ideas 2016

Row One: Cub 41 Solid Cologne from Clyde Oak ($26) | Missouri Socks from Chup ($35) | Wooden Yo-Yo by Son of A Sailor ($28)
Row Two: Key Fob from Madewell ($19.5) | Werewolf: A Party Game for Devious People by Timber & Bolt ($15) | Rubber-Dipped Wooden Pinch Bowl from Madewell x Food52 ($10)
Row Three: Flask from Stanley ($28) | Deer Socks from ANONYMOUS ISM ($28) | Infuse Bottle by Bobble ($15)
Row Four: Natural Wood Teether by Grimms ($14) | Tile Mate by Tile ($25) | The Carry On Cocktail Kit: Old Fashioned by The Carry On Cocktail Kit ($23)

 

Autumn ’16 Mixtape

autumn music playlist

It’s officially comfy sweater weather! Autumn has always been my favorite season of the year. It’s not because of all the pumpkin spice this and that either. I just wanted to go ahead and set the record straight. I think it’s because the summers here in North Carolina are not the most pleasant. As soon as the air finally  gets the little chill in it, something in me just flips over to this warm and cozy feeling inside. It’s comforting. I also suppose it’s because I spent a lot of time outdoors either hiking, biking through the mountains or camping during this season when I was younger. So, I just have really good memories about it all.

As you could tell by the lack of posts recently, we’ve been extremely busy the last part of this summer and so far this fall. Like really crazy busy. I’ve got a lot of posts in the works. As soon as things begin to slow down a little, I’ll be putting more energy into getting those posts up.

autumn music playlistForrest in Maine, sporting his Tosan Tot Sweatshirt 

As a result of being so busy, I’ve been traveling a ton. I’ve been back and forth to the mountains probably a good 15 times in the last 3 months. We also took an amazing trip up to Acadia National Park in Maine for a week, which I’ll share more about soon. But mostly, I’ve been visiting those mountains I grew up exploring and every time I get on the Blue Ridge Parkway, I always need perfect music to accompany me.

The last few trips, I began adding tracks to a playlist that gave me a good autumn feeling. Songs I plan on listening to as we are carving out our pumpkins, driving back up to the mountains as a family for Thanksgiving or teaching Forrest how to make leave angles in the racked leaves. I love to have the right music to listen to during those times, because it helps me built a soundtrack to all the little moments and big events that happen over time. Later, when I listen to one of those songs, it’ll spark those memories again.

So, here is my autumn playlist for you all!

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First Nine Months Into Fatherhood

first nine months into fatherhood

Even though it’s only three months until the big one year mark, nine months feels like a big milestone. I guess it’s because our son has now been out of the womb for as long as he was in it. These last nine months have moved so fast. Our family has changed so much for the better and as a father, I have experienced more in these first nine months into fatherhood than any other nine month, year or probably even two year period of time. With that, I have also learned more in these months than I ever have.

Although my journey into fatherhood has been short thus far, it has undeniably been the most rewarding and challenging time of my life. I have never smiled, laughed, cried, cared or loved so much and that will always outweigh how little I’ve slept, worried so much and worked so hard. And there are things I am grateful I already knew and there are things I really wish I had already known. There have been some hard lessons learned. It’s a whole other world caring for and providing for a little human. But I can tell you one thing; it’s been completely worth it. Most of what I’ve learned so far has made me a better person, husband and has brought more love and joy into my life than I thought possible.

first nine months into fatherhood

Changing diapers and living on little sleep are the sort of things that are on the easier end of things and just happen. Navigating how to communicate with your wife in a whole new way and figuring out how to actually get work done from home with a baby are the some of the more complex lessons learned. What I do know is that the love and care I have for my family pushed me to figure these things out. There is no doubt that it’s hard, but man I now cannot imagine life any other way.

Before meeting Forrest, the only deep love for a human being I truly knew was the love that I have for my wife. During her pregnancy, I couldn’t imagine how I could love her even more. Then I learned that I could during the whole birthing process. There was this enormous amount of love that just overflowed out of me toward both her and our baby boy. I literally couldn’t imagine my heart having that much more room for the massive amount of love I immediately felt upon finally meeting my son face to face. I knew I’d love this child like crazy. I just had nothing to really compare that sort of love to. It’s a new and different kind of love that is hard to put into words. It’s amazing.

first nine months into fatherhood

That love has continued to grow each and everyday since. The two of them continue to put me in awe constantly. My wife is amazing. From getting up in the middle of the night to feed him to putting aside everything on her agenda to make room for our sons own little agenda to just being a mother, Jessica really shows me what unconditional love, dedication and commitment look like and that is the root of where this newfound love I have for her comes from. I see that it’s all very hard and tiring and simply draining, but she’s never once complained or said she can’t do it. She’s stronger than ever and she toughs through it like a champ. She has physically, mentally and emotionally overcome  so many more hurdles the last nine months. I’m continuously impressed by her everyday.

Another thing I’ve learned is how to slow down at the right times and how to kick myself into gear when it’s needed. These days go by so fast and if I am wanting to take part in as much as I can, I have to learn how to manage my time the best I can. It’s taken some getting used to and there have been plenty of days I left my to-do list pretty much the way it started for the day. As I’ve gotten into the swing of things better, I know when it’s time to slow down and take it all in. To turn off all distractions and focus on my son and wife. A nine month old doesn’t understand the concept of work and his innocence deserves my attention right now. So, now I work smarter and harder when the time comes. So much less of my time is wasted these days and it feels great. Of course, as parents, we also need some downtime for ourselves, so I’ve learned how to plan for that. Usually, this means grinding harder to get work done and using that left over time to be lazy or just do something for myself. It’s a big transition going from being able to be lazy whenever you want to no longer having that sort of freedom if you will. You’ll really appreciate that time you worked hard to have. It may seem small at first, but it really will mean a lot to you.

I’ve always been a tidy person. For as long as I can remember, my room was always clean and organized. During Jessica’s pregnancy, we did a lot of preparing for the extra stuff kids come with and smart solutions for how to store it all. We knew we didn’t want our home to look like a tornado blew through a Buy Buy Baby store. But you know what, some days it still does and I’ve learned to be okay with that. It’s just not worth trying to keep it all cleaned up all the time because you’ll miss out on the little things that are happening and I just want to let our nine month old be a nine month old. Instead, I’ve learned to embrace the mess for a time and let him be curious and explore and then put it all back up after he’s gone down to bed or nap. Either Jess and I pick up as we go after laying him down.

first nine months into fatherhood

Becoming a father has also made me a tougher person yet at the same time, it’s also made me more sensitive. I am no longer afraid to do what I need to do to make something happen. I’ve shrugged off that fear of what others might think when it comes down to doing what’s needed for my family. They come well ahead of anyone else. I’ve learned to speak up when needed, to stand my ground better and approach situations with more of a confident tone. At the same time, I feel that I have more compassion and sympathize with more.

In no other time in my life has a nine month period of time meant so much, taught me so much and shaped me as much as these last nine have. I am sure I could go on for days about everything I’ve learned. Maybe I’ll share more in three months when Forrest turns one. But for now, I can say with confidence that the number one thing I’ve learned since becoming a father is that to become one is incredible. It’s the best. No better way to put it!